Let’s Talk Heartbreaks

Hey people, it’s me again….Today I’d like to address something we’ve all been through, yet delve right back in and get hit every time….well most times…HEARTBREAK
“There are plenty of ways to die, but only love can kill and keep you alive to feel it”….. Leo Christopher
We’ve all been there, at least I’m sure I have, some sudden, some expected, some inevitable, it just happens, and you ask yourself how did you get here! Or why did you let it get that far, what did you do wrong, was it you, was it really what they said went wrong or something entirely different. At first it doesn’t even hit you, you cry, you scream, you can literally feel your heart break into a thousand pieces, yet, as time goes on, it occurs to you that tears was the easiest part of the grief, nothing excites you anymore, you think of running back and making it work but it’s clearly too late.
So you tell yourself it’s okay, you’ve been through it before and you’ll get over it, you listen to your favorite songs and even create a playlist, Adele being the most on such, some days you wake up feeling better, others, you wish you never did, and then it hits you all over again, and at this point, you get the tears and the pain.
Yes we’ve all been there, but this is me telling you it wasn’t your fault, you did nothing to find yourself there, it’s okay to have been too blind in love to let it get that far, you did nothing wrong, it’s not you, whether or not it’s what they say went wrong doesn’t matter anymore, it’s okay to cry it out, it’s okay to indulge, take sometime for yourself, talk if you want to, don’t if you don’t feel like it, whatever it is, pick you, choose you, love you, remind yourself you deserve better, tell yourself you’ll be fine again, believe the universe when it says it has better plans for you, trust in your guts, it will be dawn again.
And as I read somewhere ”never let a heart that did not love you stop you from the one that will”
Someday, maybe not today, maybe not  tomorrow, but someday, you’ll wake up and you’ll realize it doesn’t hurt so bad anymore, you can breathe again, you can laugh again, and you can dance again, this, will be your happy place, I promise.
You just take it one day at a time…
Love…S💛