Stop Forcing It.

Say no, do not negotiate with terrorists, do not bargain for anyone’s love… Titilope Sonuga⁣⁣⁣
Many times we find ourselves in friendships and relationships that are purely one sided, all our efforts are never reciprocated and our energy is just not matched, no matter how hard we try, it just always comes off as forced, and there’s nothing we can do about it. ⁣⁣⁣
Want to know what you can do something about? ⁣⁣⁣
How you choose to react to these unreciprocated relationships, and what you choose to do with them. ⁣⁣⁣
Remembering vibes never lie, you have to stop forcing relationships with people, if they wanted you around they’d show you they do, it’s not so hard to tell when someone wants you in their life, as a matter of fact, it’s one of the easiest things to know, and once you have to question whether or not they do, they most likely do not!⁣⁣⁣
So why would you choose to keep begging for anyone’s love when there are people out there that’d gladly match your energy, reach your vibe and reciprocate your effort.⁣⁣⁣
It’s fine to give people a chance and make sure you gave it your all, but you have to make sure you are not loosing yourself to earn them, you are not hurting yourself to please them and they are not taking up space, acquiring webs and blocking your pathway.⁣⁣⁣
Again, “save emotional real estate for the ones that will stay” Titilope Sonuga.⁣⁣⁣
Friendships and relationships are definitely worth fighting for, but you have to make sure those you are fighting for are fighting for you.⁣⁣⁣
Make sure those you would move mountains for will move heavens for you.⁣⁣⁣
Make sure those you would give a kidney to will give you their bone marrow.⁣⁣⁣
There’s nothing fun about a one sided battle, there’s definitely nothing fun about a one sided love.⁣⁣⁣

Choose those who choose you.⁣⁣⁣
All My Love⁣⁣⁣

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